Well, we got through our inspections on the home we are buying this past weekend and we are still moving full-speed ahead. Some people would have run when they saw what we saw, but feeling that God has led us to this point; if we are to be obedient we feel we cannot turn back now. We’ve spent the last couple of years preparing and praying for God to sell our home and then give us the perfect home for us—whatever that might be. We have had contracts on other homes or at least had our eye on others and the second we were ready to move forward on them, the process was stopped for one reason or another.
Jim and I had a big list of things we wanted in a home but every house up until this one has been lacking in one or two of the things on our list. We were OK with that though realizing that short of building the perfect house for us, we were not very likely to find everything we wanted. Keeping this in mind, if it only had a two car garage and not three, we were OK with that. If the office wasn’t as big as liked, we would make due. Or, if the location was OK, we could always renovate and make the new home be what we needed it to be.
When Jim and I were both single, we signed up for e-Harmony—an Internet dating site—to help us find the perfect mate. That is where we actually met. e-Harmony’s system matches individuals on 29 important qualities of their personality, beliefs, etc. When you sign-up, you are to make a list of “Must Haves” and “Can’t Stands.” Their computer supposedly uses your personality test along with those lists to match you up to the perfect person. Before we met each other, we both dated others on that site and although we had a lot of things in common, they weren’t the perfect match for us. Had we moved forward with those relationships, we would have been settling for less than what God actually had in store for us.
Well, it appears that the same is happening now in our home purchase. We have begged God to speed up the process and help us move forward as we desperately wanted to at least get our living space on one floor in case I should begin having my breathing problems again that I was having last year. Two things we weren’t willing to bend on were the size of our dining room or at least space in which to extend a table at holidays and Jim wanted a walk-in shower big enough that he wasn’t knocking his elbows as he bathed. Just as the people we dated previously and may have settled for, there were also houses that we could’ve settled for and been OK.
However, I have learned over the years that God is Sovereign. If I am willing to wait on His timing, He will give me the desires of my heart. God has had a plan for the last two years for us and while we were getting to where we are today, our future house sat empty waiting on our arrival. Others have tried to purchase it to no avail as God had a plan for the Kemptons to live there. Just as Jim highly exceeded my expectations with my e-Harmony experiences, I suspect our new home will do the same. It not only has a huge dining room for my entire family to sit in one room together at the holidays; but it also has Jim’s walk-in shower–one on the first floor and one in the basement! Isn’t that how God is? He doesn’t expect us to pray in faith and patiently wait for Him to answer only to give us something to settle for. When God is involved and we are willing to wait on His timing and not ours, He blesses us beyond what our minds can conceive.
Does our new home have problems? Yes. When we turned the water on during the inspection, water came pouring out from many areas of the plumbing all over the house since it had been empty for the last two years. However, I consider that a mere distraction from Satan. In fact, at that point of discovery, we could have chosen to either stay focused on the problems or we could choose to stay focused on where God was at work in our lives. Truth be known, those are easy fixes and once they are done, we will have a wonderful home.
Many of us pray and pray for something and when we get it, we think oh, it leaks, God couldn’t want this for us. Or perhaps they think, this answer is too big or too nice. I really don’t need that or deserve it. But just as when our loved ones here on earth give us nice gifts, so does our heavenly Father. In fact, it gives Him great joy when He does. So if your spouse gave you a wonderful gift and you knew they had all the money in the world to give it to you, would you tell them to take it back? I doubt it. So why do we question God? He wants to richly bless you in all areas of your life. When have you told God, “I really don’t need that, or I had something much smaller in mind.” Or when have you been willing to settle for second best because you felt unworthy or didn’t have the faith that God could give you everything on your must have list?
The Bible says, “If you have the faith of a mustard seed, you can move a mountain.” Most of us will never understand that concept as we tend to depend more on ourselves than on God most of the time. Our society tells us to be independent, just make it happen, and find one’s inner strength. My experience has been that when I am more dependent on God, wait for His timing and pray for the Holy Spirit to be my strength in times of trouble, my socks are blessed right off my feet and I end up with way more than I ever imagined possible.
Yes, my house isn’t perfect. In fact it is far from perfect with leaking plumbing and other things. However, I know in my heart that God has put us in this place for this time so whatever lies ahead will be just fine. I would much rather be in God’s will with the husband and home that He chose for me than to have settled for less and do it my way.
What have you been praying for lately? Do you have the faith that believes that in God’s time, your prayer will be answered perfectly and according to His will? Are you prepared for a long wait if need be? We haven’t closed on the house yet and until we do, I don’t know what tomorrow brings. However, if this is the gift God has planned for Jim and I, we are moving forward in faith that He will take care of the details. I pray that whatever is on your mind and heart, God will give you the peace to wait on Him and the grace to accept the answers He gives when He does.
Matthew 17:20 So Jesus said to them, “Because of your unbelief; for assuredly, I say to you, if you have faith as a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move; and nothing will be impossible for you.
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